L.O.V.E. in my mom's perspective

slm..
erm.. for the past 2 days, me and my mom was talking about love..
there's a lot of useful information that i gained from the conversation..seems like my mom understands me well now..and be open minded about it..maybe she just can't wait to have a future son- in- law..since i should marry at this age...24 years old..

i just don't expect that i inherit most of my mom's attitude..since i am very close to my dad..i just consider that i have my father's attitude..haha..
when she told me about herself, i said to her 'no wonder mom..we got same attitude..now i knew i got this attitude from you..' and she just laugh and laugh.. =)

well, these are some that i would like to share with all of you..

1) if you have crush on someone, just be cool about that..because as a girl..we shouldn't express too much about our feelings..that's what my mom said..

2) if anything goes wrong..such as your friend revealed something..much more like a gossip...just ignore that and act normally..because if we tried to fix the things up, it may made things worst..

3)my favourite part... let the guy came looking for us..if that guy is in love with us, he will confront to it anyway...(that's my philosophy for many years..when my mom told me about it, only then i knew we share the same philosophy..haha)

and the next conversation must be kept to myself anyway..since there's something that musn't be revealed here... :P

how i wish my mom were open minded like this 5 years backwards...when i first in love with a guy...at a very young age..19 years old..but i don't regret it anyway..

P/S: i am now my mom's best buddy...although we argued most of the time, but i'm glad that she is my mom... =) LOVE YOU SO MUCH, MOM